Today we’d like to introduce you to Deanna Butler Gayle.
Hi Deanna; we’re thrilled to have a chance to learn your story today. So, before we get into specifics, maybe you can briefly walk us through how you got to where you are today.
My journey is quite different than I could imagine. Growing up in Aiken, SC, my life was centered around church, sports, and family. I had always been a part of the church choir and eventually began to lead and direct, although I did not have the most confidence in my talent. Others recognized my gift and often encouraged me through my shy demeanor. At the time, I had no idea how this foundation in music would shape my life and how it would keep me grounded through my highest and lowest times.
In 2003, as a healthy sophomore college athlete, I woke up early Monday morning in April to head to my first class. I had a terrible headache with dizziness, nausea, and blurred vision, and when I saw myself in the mirror- I had no control over the movement of my right eye. I rubbed my eyes to get a clearer vision, but it did not work. I somehow drove myself to the campus infirmary and was triaged for over 6 hours without improvement. I was then taken to the local hospital and spent a week undergoing testing and neurological exams. After days of observation, the doctor concluded that it could be Multiple Sclerosis (MS). MS was something I had vaguely heard of, and I did not know one person who had been diagnosed. It was truly one of the most traumatic experiences of my life, and at that moment, I was not sure if it would end my life too soon.
As powerless as I felt, there was still a will inside of me to continue to pursue everything I started- as if I was racing to beat MS before it could control my narrative. Recovering through the rest of the semester and the summer in my hometown, I returned to finish my Computer Information Science and Business Administration studies while competing in three more seasons of softball. As full as my plate was, I still found solace through music by joining the Sunday morning chapel choir. After graduation, I found my way to Atlanta in a new career that gave me the perfect fresh start. As God would see fit, I began to connect with music industry veterans that not only recognized my musical talent but now also recognized my business acumen and professionalism. I began writing for artists, managing, and eventually producing events. These relationships and opportunities placed me in several rooms with music legends and veterans! However, at times I was silently suffering as I managed complications of MS, but also fighting to exude a strong woman who could easily handle things. I maintained my various roles without sharing my diagnosis with colleagues because I did not want to be treated differently or excluded from things if I was perceived as incapable. This constant battle allowed me to create a new path that led to the launch of my very own entertainment company for artist development and event productions. Each production brings awareness to life-altering diseases such as MS and cancer and donates some proceeds to organizations supporting those diagnosed. I found a way to allow my passion for music to help me overcome one of my biggest challenges, which now inspires others.
I’m sure you wouldn’t say it’s been obstacle free, but so far would you say the journey has been fairly smooth?
By no means has it been a smooth road, but God’s grace gave me the strength and wisdom to keep moving forward. In hindsight, my biggest struggles have often been more internal- thoughts of doubts, unrealistic fears, and believing that I am good enough when I feel inadequate because of my circumstances. I soon realized that anything I thought I could not overcome, I did not, and whatever I thought I could accomplish, I did. With vision, the right mindset, training, preparation, and an opportunity, you will find yourself on the other side of any struggle.
As you know, we’re big fans of you and your work. For our readers who might not be as familiar, what can you tell them about what you do?
“Stay Low” is a common phrase on the playing field, meaning being in a ready position to anticipate better whatever happens next. The same applies in life as we should not think so highly of ourselves but remain low, [humble and grateful] through every situation. I created The Stay Low Campaign (SLC) as a platform to share my MS journey that would inspire and provide support to MS fighters and their families.
In addition to hosting a monthly support group meeting since 2017, SLC works with The Bridge Network, LLC, to produce live entertainment events featuring international recording and up-and-coming artists bringing awareness to life-altering diseases such as MS, cancer, and Parkinson’s. These events provide family-friendly entertainment while partnering with local businesses, non-profit organizations, and media outlets.
Although music entertainment and MS are parts of my journey, I want people to know that whatever your passion or plight is, you can use them to fulfill your purpose. Someone needs to hear your story in your voice. You may only reach a few people, or you could inspire millions. I am proud to say that the core of my brand is to make people feel seen and offer a glimmer of hope that things don’t end the way they started because hope changes everything!
What makes you happy?
I am happy when I can do something for someone unexpected. I am happy when doing the most mundane things with friends or loved ones and have the best time just enjoying each other’s company. Finding peace and contentment in any situation always leads to my happiness.
Contact Info:
- Website: www.staylowcampaign.com
